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Social anxiety

Common symptoms of social anxiety

If you've started to notice some of the symptoms we've listed below, we may be able to help.

 

Thoughts
  • "No one likes me"
  • "I have nothing interesting to say, I’m boring"
  • "I look and sound stupid"
  • "Everyone is staring at me"
  • "People can tell how anxious I am"
  • "Others are judging me"
Symptoms
  • You are spending more time alone
  • You avoid social situations
  • You have stopped doing the things you enjoy
  • You stay quiet to not make a fool of yourself
  • You are unable to concentrate
  • Your heart pounding in your chest
  • A stomach-churning sensation
  • You are sweating excessively
Feelings
  • Tense
  • Anxious
  • Vulnerable
  • Self-conscious
  • Embarrassed
  • Upset
  • Panicky
  • On edge

Possible causes of social anxiety

  • Low self-esteem/confidence – if you have a negative or poor opinion of yourself, you may feel more anxious and vulnerable in social situations
  • Anxious personality type – you may have certain thinking styles, which are part of your personality, that can lead to you feeling anxious in social situations
  • Learnt behaviour – you can learn to worry and be anxious in social situations; your childhood or life experiences may be the reason for this pressure – you may be under pressure at home or work, feel trapped or unable to problem solve certain issues that may arise in social situations
  • Negative thinking – sometimes you may start to think negatively due to an event or situation, and this can then become a habit and part of your general outlook; you may not even be aware of how negatively you were thinking or how this is impacting on you
  • Lack of interest or reduction of pleasurable activities – sometimes, due to circumstances, you may reduce activities that you gained pleasure, satisfaction or achievement from; you then do not increase these activities as soon as possible, instead you may forget just how much you benefited from these activities, causing you to have a lack of interest in doing them and feeling unable to reengage with these activities as you fear you will not cope well

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We worked with our partner Insight Healthcare to create this short guide. Always speak to your GP if you feel like you could be suffering from a serious mental health condition.