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Low mood due to bereavement

Common symptoms of low mood due to bereavement

If you've started to notice some of the symptoms we've listed below, we may be able to help.


  • "What am I going to do now?"
  • "I can’t do this alone"
  • "I wish I had them here with me"
  • "This shouldn't have happened to us"
  • "This was not the right time"
  • An increase or decrease in appetite
  • You are spending more time alone
  • You are sleeping too much or too little
  • You have stopped doing the things you enjoy
  • You are putting off dealing with practical tasks
  • You are avoiding talking about the loss
  • Low
  • Upset
  • Tearful
  • Sad
  • Loss or grief
  • Overwhelmed
  • Worried
  • Helpless

Possible causes of low mood due to bereavement

  • Stressful life events – these can be unwelcome or traumatic, such as the loss of a loved one
  • Negative thinking – sometimes you may start to think negatively due to an event or situation, this can then become a habit and part of your general outlook; you may not even be aware of how negatively you were thinking or how this is impacting on you
  • Lack of interest or reduction of pleasurable activities – you may have reduced activities that you gained pleasure, satisfaction, or achievement from. You then forget just how much you benefited from these activities
  • Loss – this can be the actual loss of someone through death or disappearance, but it can also be a major life change where there has been an adjustment and a loss of role or identity (e.g. redundancy or retirement)
  • Anger – if you struggle to express your feelings, particularly anger, you may find yourself low in mood as a result of not expressing your anger or frustration in a safe and responsible way

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We worked with our partner Insight Healthcare to create this short guide. Always speak to your GP if you feel like you could be suffering from a serious mental health condition.