Dementia Demystified: Everything You Need to Know
According to the Alzheimer’s Society, it’s estimated that there’s almost one million people living with dementia in the UK. However, more than a one-third of those people don’t have a diagnosis.
That’s why it’s important to improve our understanding of dementia, so we can better support those living with the condition, as well as take steps to protect our own brain health, too.
In this guide, we’ll explain everything you need to know about dementia, covering causes, symptoms, treatment, and how to reduce your risk.
Contents:
What is dementia?
What causes dementia?
What are the symptoms of dementia?
How do you treat dementia?
5 steps to reduce the risk of dementia
How can Benenden Health help with dementia?
What is dementia?
Rather than a single disease or condition, dementia is an umbrella term for a group of diseases that damage nerve cells in the brain, which over time causes a decline in cognitive function. This can progressively lead to memory loss, changes in behaviour or personality, and difficulties with thinking, speaking, or understanding the world around you.
In total, there are over 200 types of dementia, but the most common include:
- Alzheimer’s disease.
- Vascular dementia.
- Dementia with Lewy bodies.
- Frontotemporal dementia (FTD).
- Mixed dementia.
Is dementia a mental illness?
No, dementia is not classed as a mental illness. While it can affect mood and behaviour (similar to other mental health conditions), the different types of dementia cause a physical change to your brain, damaging brain cells.
However, dementia can impact your mental health. The challenges and difficulties of living with this condition can lead to increased stress, anxiety, and depression.
Is dementia and Alzheimer’s the same thing?
Not quite. Alzheimer’s disease is just one type of dementia - although it’s the most common, contributing to 60-70% of cases worldwide. Think of dementia as the overall condition, and Alzheimer’s as one of the forms it can take.
Each type of dementia has slightly different causes and symptoms, though there is some crossover.
What causes dementia?
Dementia happens when nerve cells (also known as neurones) in the brain become damaged and stop working properly. This damage can stop signals from travelling between brain cells, leading to difficulties with memory, communication, and daily tasks.
Common causes of this brain cell damage include:
Alzheimer’s disease: A build-up of proteins in the brain disrupts the communication between nerve cells, damaging and causing them to die.
A large stroke or a series of small strokes: Strokes disrupt the blood flow to your brain. This deprives it of oxygen and essential nutrients, damaging and killing brain cells, which can lead to vascular dementia.
Severe or repeated head injuries: These traumas can directly damage brain tissue and disrupt its function, leading to a build-up of abnormal proteins. Similar to Alzheimer’s disease, these proteins disrupt communication, damaging and killing brain cells.
Infections or other medical conditions: Any conditions or infections that affect the brain can damage or kill the cells, increasing the risk of dementia.
What’s the biggest risk factor for dementia?
Ultimately, the biggest risk factor for dementia is age. Dementia predominantly affects older adults. That’s because dementia can take a long time to develop, with the causes taking many years to damage the brain enough to show symptoms.
For example, the Alzheimer’s Society reports that around 2 in every 100 people aged between 65 and 69 have dementia, which increases to roughly 33 in 100 for those over 90 years old.
However, there are also other factors that can increase your risk of dementia, including:
A family history of dementia.
Certain ethnic backgrounds (e.g. people from Black, Asian or Minority Ethnic communities may be more at risk due to conditions like diabetes or high blood pressure).
Lifestyle choices (like smoking or lack of exercise).
Is dementia hereditary?
In most cases, dementia is not directly inherited. There are certain genes that can increase your risk of developing dementia, but having a family member with the condition doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll develop it yourself.
Some of the rarer types of dementia are genetic. For example, young-onset dementia (affecting people in their 50s and 60s) and Huntington’s disease can be passed through family.
If you’re concerned about your family history with dementia, speak to a GP or your primary care team.
What are the symptoms of dementia?
The exact symptoms can differ depending on the type of dementia, the stage of the illness, and which parts of the brain are affected. However, there are some common early signs to watch out for:
Memory loss: This can include forgetting recent events, misplacing items, or asking the same questions repeatedly.
Difficulty with thinking and decision-making: For example, someone with dementia might struggle to understand or follow a conversation, or become confused in familiar places. Dementia can also cause difficulties with concentration and brain fog.
Changes in communication: People with dementia can find it hard to find the right words, or they might repeat phrases and have trouble reading and writing.
Mood or behaviour changes: You might notice someone becoming more anxious, withdrawn, or easily frustrated, in addition to the symptoms above.
The difficulty with dementia is that, in the early stages, these symptoms are subtle and can easily be mistaken for normal ageing. If you would like to discuss any of these symptoms in more detail, speak to a doctor on our 24/7 GP Helpline, exclusive for Benenden Health members.
Can dementia come on suddenly?
In most cases, dementia develops gradually, over many months or years. However, there are types that can come on suddenly, such as vascular dementia, most commonly after a stroke or a major health trauma.
There are also individual symptoms that can come on quite quickly, though they might not be a sign of dementia in of itself. For example, sudden confusion (also known as delirium) can occur due to infections (like a UTI) or other medical conditions, such as a stroke or TIA.
If you do notice symptoms appearing suddenly with a loved one, seek medical advice as soon as possible to rule out any other causes.
How do you treat dementia?
While there’s currently no known cure for dementia, there are different treatments that can help manage the symptoms, improving the quality of life for those living with the condition:
Medicines
Some medications can help slow the progression of symptoms in certain types of dementia, especially Alzheimer’s disease. These include:
Cholinesterase inhibitors: These medicines help nerve cells better communicate with each other, keeping the brain working as it should for longer.
Memantine: Used in moderate to severe cases, these medicines block a chemical called glutamate, which damages nerve cells in your brain.
Your GP or primary care team will help decide if medication is suitable for you or your loved one, as well as which one is best for your treatment.
Person-centred care
Person-centred care focuses more on an individual person’s overall well-being and quality of life, ensuring they feel comfortable, respected, and understood. This approach helps people with dementia stay involved in activities they enjoy, empowers them to make independent choices, and encourages them to maintain relationships and social interactions.
Alternative therapies
Rather than looking to treat the causes of dementia directly, alternative therapies look to manage the symptoms and help people feel more comfortable. These include:
Aromatherapy or massages: These therapies can help people relax and improve their overall mood.
Light therapy: Used to help with sleep issues, light therapy aims to regulate your circadian rhythm, which can be disrupted by dementia.
Gentle exercise: Low impact exercises, such as tai chi and walking, can help to stimulate the brain, helping to improve mobility and hand-eye coordination.
Can dementia kill you?
Sadly, dementia is a progressive condition, which means it gets worse over time. In the later stages, it can affect basic functions like eating, drinking, and breathing - so yes, dementia can be a cause of death.
However, people can live for many years with dementia, especially with the right care and support in place. The focus should always be on quality of life and planning ahead.
5 steps to reduce the risk of dementia
Although there’s no guaranteed way to prevent dementia, research shows there are things you can do to lower your risk. In fact, Alzheimer's Research UK reports that almost half of dementia cases worldwide could be prevented or delayed.
In particular, making healthy lifestyle changes or choices can make a big difference. This includes:
Staying physically active: Aim to move every day, even if it’s just gentle exercises like walking, dancing, or gardening.
Eating a balanced diet: Focus on whole foods, with plenty of vegetables, oily fish, and less processed sugar and fat.
Stopping smoking: Smoking damages blood vessels, reducing the oxygen supply to your brain, increasing your risk of vascular dementia.
Keeping your mind active: Try puzzles, learning a new skill, reading or even volunteering. This can make your brain more resilient to the effects of dementia.
Looking after your heart health: While not directly linked to your brain, issues with your heart can contribute to dementia, with your brain not getting enough oxygen or nutrients. Speak to your GP or primary care team to help manage blood pressure and cholesterol levels.
How can Benenden Health help with dementia?
As a member of Benenden Health, you’ll get access to Care Planning and Social Care Advice service, here to help you by providing access to a care adviser who can offer information and advice about adult care. You'll also get access to a 24/7 GP Helpline, so you can call to book an appointment with a doctor at any time.
Just remember, if you or someone you love is living with dementia, you're not alone. With the right support, care and information, it’s absolutely possible to live a good quality of life with the condition.
Medically reviewed in July 2025.